When he says, "I don't deserve you." [Podcast]
May 13, 2019
When you’re with him, everything feels so right. But he keeps saying, “I can’t be the man you need. You deserve better.” He goes away, and then comes back.
You find yourself watering down your success and independence to meet him at his level, to convince him that he is needed.
Listen to what he’s actually saying. He’s speaking the truth- you DO deserve better. But because you’ve been conditioned to think you should be modest and you’ve seen how mentioning your success scares men away, you make yourself small. In this episode, you'll gain clarity as to why he says this, how his words and actions are impacting you, and what you can do about it.
How long will you let someone else’s fear of rejection hold you down? There are successful men out there looking for successful women to grow together with. The longer you dismiss how amazing you really are, the longer you are missing out on the opportunity to move forward with someone equally as amazing, side by side, rather than constantly checking behind you, waiting for someone to catch up.
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