The Pink Gumball: It's All About Me
Dec 13, 2020
Welcome back to this series, where we're talking about all the flavors of attention that the wrong guys want. They make us think that they're falling for us, but they're getting high off of attention and they're not actually building true and lasting connection.
I share this with you so you can understand how to filter unhealthy men and people out. So you don't waste your time on the people that are just taking from you, the people that are not really investing and focused on your life.
I've assigned each type of attention as a "flavor of attention" with all the different gumball flavors, and so far we've already covered red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple...and this episode is about pink!
I encourage you to listen to the episodes about the other ones first, the links are at the bottom!
When a guy wants the Pink Gumball type of attention, he's the one who always makes every conversation about him. You could say anything, and he'll always turn it back to him. Or when he gives you a gift, it's not for the joy of watching you light up when you receive it, it's about him being able to take all the credit for finding the gift, or how much money he spent on it, etc.
Tune in to hear more about how you can spot when a guy wants this gumball, and how to respond. This episode is also jam packed with motivation and encouragement on finding the one, so if you need a pick me up, this is it!!
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