How will I know if he's the right guy?
Oct 18, 2020In this episode I'll be answering a listener question: How will I know if he's the right guy? She also feared that she may have so much self worth and love that no guy will ever be good enough for her. So if you've asked yourself similar questions, you'll want to tune in to this episode!
There are tons of "lists" out there that you'll find on Buzzfeed or wherever, but you know I always say there are no hard and fast "rules" in love, or one size fits all. So, this is a list of some simple things to look out for and what I've personally experienced after dating many guys who were definitely NOT the right one, and finally finding the guy who is.
I also discuss how to be supportive and compassionate, without playing the role of his therapist and trying to help him heal when it's too big for you to handle (because you're not his therapist!!).
The top three things are:
1. You're having fun with them all the time. Even the moments in life that are not fun, there's no one else you'd rather experience those times with
2. He is different than anyone you've ever met
3. You won't be interested in anyone else
Tune in to hear the rest!
Further Listening:
How to Tell Early On if He's the Wrong One
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